Go stand furthest away from the picture- you see a beautiful elegant spread of colour Walk a little bit closer- you see "soft" written in pencil, you see soft. Walk closest possible- you see "sometimes too soft" The people we see as "too emotional, too soft, too complicated" see it because we have been overly exposed to them, we are too close to them. We don't see that till we get closer All the humans are always been like that, always "too much" of something It's just you are standing far away